Creating
CONSCIOUS LOVE
Learn how to speak your partner's language, reconnect, and experience deeper intimacy, understanding and safety in 6 weeks.
Creating
CONSCIOUS LOVE
AN INTIMACY COURSE FOR COUPLES
Learn how to speak your partner's language, reconnect, and experience deeper intimacy, understanding and safety in 6 weeks.
At the heart of every relationship is two people with different wants, needs and desires.
Many of us find ourselves on the never-ending pursuit for the perfect partnership. We want to find a person with whom the honeymoon phase will never end.
If you’re like many of our coaching clients, you want your partner to see you for who you really are. You want mutual trust, admiration, respect, passion, play, safety and freedom. You want it all. Who can blame you? You deserve the best!
But let’s face it, most of us have never seen a “perfect relationship” let alone experienced one. We might have no idea HOW to actually build a relationship that gives us all those feelings we want to feel - like feeling confident, alive, energized, grounded, supported, clear, and sexy.
Instead, many of us find ourselves entering into a relationship with our “dream partner” only to find ourselves back on the hamster wheel of power-struggles and disappointments.
Not all relationships are meant to last, but
there’s a secret that many couples don’t know.
That sometimes when they’re in the power-struggle phase, they’re facing one of their most potent opportunities to level up. Not just in how they operate in relationships, but in all areas of their lives.
You see, a Conscious Relationship is not something we go out and “attract”, it’s something we co-create, and it’s not always easy, but the fruit of the labour is ultimate fulfillment, and less distraction from chaos so you can focus on what you’re here to do… whether that’s generating wealth to be of service in the world, building and raising a healthy family, or both.
The truth is, sometimes relationships will feel hard, and that’s ok. In our culture, we’re taught to believe in the fairytale that someday we’ll find a partner who takes all our troubles away and never makes us want to run for the hills…. And sure, there’s that 1% of couples out there who say they’ve never had a fight, but if you’re like most of us, Ben and I included, great relationships take work.
Hi, I’m Shay, and to my right is Ben.
We’ve been practicing Conscious Relationship, tantra and shadow work for the past 5 years as a couple.
We’ve been practicing Conscious Relationship, tantra
and shadow work for the past 5 years as a couple.
We began working with a spiritual teacher just 2 months into our partnership and eventually went on to apprentice as teachers ourselves. We’ve spent countless hours in group-therapy and personal growth containers both as students and facilitators, we’ve traveled around North America and spent thousands of dollars on relationship trainings, and have dedicated our lives to growing ourselves in relationship and being of service to our community.
We’re fiery, passionate and stubborn people. We used to fight A LOT, even though we had all of the tools, and worked with a teacher. We still had to navigate the power-struggle like any other couple.
And the reason we’re together today and stronger than ever is because of these exact practices, tools, and exercises we’re going to guide you through in our Flagship Couples Course: Creating Conscious Love.
Relationships shouldn’t drain you, they should be life-giving! Creating Conscious Love is right for you if you’re ready to:
Relationships shouldn’t drain you, they should be life-giving! Creating Conscious Love is right for you if you’re ready to:
- Learn to speak your partner's language.
- Gain a deeper understanding of how to build a Conscious Relationship.
- Resolve conflict Consciously and peacefully.
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Clear resentments from the past, or heal old wounds together.
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Feel safe, seen, heard and understood by your partner.
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Do the inner-work to create more safety, and freedom within your relationship.
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Experience more bliss, connection and ease together through simple intimacy rituals.
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Spend time getting to know each other on a deeper level.
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Reduce negativity and learn to see your partner in their highest light.
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Create an equal partnership where you are both free to be yourselves and you never have to hold back your truth to “protect” the other person.
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Feel energized, empowered, safe and free in your partnership.
Together, Ben and I have navigated the anxious-avoidant dance, recurring conflict, childhood wounds, shadow work, re-surfacing traumas and other challenging situations that can create separation in partnership. And the beautiful thing is, because of the tools and practices we have to draw on, those hard moments have only made us stronger, more resilient, and pushed us further into our personal power.
We know that a relationship with disconnection, negativity and constant conflict is a GIANT distraction… it prevents us from knowing ourselves, from being of service to others, from feeling safe, and from generating wealth and abundance.
You must clear the blocks in your way if you want to be an integrated and awake individual in the world.
Together, Ben and I have navigated the anxious-avoidant dance, recurring conflict, childhood wounds, shadow work, re-surfacing traumas and other challenging situations that can create separation in partnership. And the beautiful thing is, because of the tools and practices we have to draw on, those hard moments have only made us stronger, more resilient, and pushed us further into our personal power.
We know that a relationship with disconnection, negativity and constant conflict is a GIANT distraction… it prevents us from knowing ourselves, from being of service to others, from feeling safe, and from generating wealth and abundance.
You must clear the blocks in your way if you want to be an integrated and awake individual in the world.
A Conscious Relationship has the capacity to transform you into the most powerful version of yourself. To Elevate your capacity to generate wealth and abundance and live a deeply fulfilling and satisfying life…
We’re here to guide you through the inner-work so that you and your partner can individually learn what it takes to cultivate a Conscious Relationship.
If you’re ready to turn your relationship into a container for growth and expansion while also getting the opportunity to feel fully heard, seen and understood by the one you love, click the button below and get started now!
About
BEN + SHAY
BEN + SHAY
Today, I have a readership over over 1.7 million people who come to me to learn how to get better at relationships. I am the Founder of Rising Woman and a spiritual writer and guide.
Ben has been an addiction counselor and men’s coach for the past 15 years. He is the host of the Evolving Man podcast and an Executive of the Samurai Brotherhood and mens group leader.
We have spent countless hours in group therapy, doing our own inner-work, practicing Conscious Relationship, and guiding coaching clients through rough waters. We are not here to preach to you about how your relationship should be easy, or how superior we are because we “have it all figured out”. We’re sitting in the fire with you and doing this thing together.
Relationships can be incredibly challenging - we know this first-hand, and we’re here to remind you that it’s OK to have challenges but you don’t have to suffer through them. The power-struggle phase can’t last forever, you’ll burn out, end up hating each other, or you’ll simply drift apart and lose trust.
Creating Conscious Love is the antidote to the deadzone
Creating Conscious Love is the antidote to the deadzone
It is full of simple yet powerful practices that will move you forward into the zone of Conscious Relationship. A space where you can be free to be yourself, and feel seen and loved by your partner.
We began this work when we were in the honeymoon phase full blast. We didn’t have any “problem” to work through, but we weren’t naive to think the bliss would last forever.
So we dove in head first, and now, no matter where you and your partner are on this wild journey of relationship, we’re inviting you to do the same.
Testimonials
"Ben and Sheleana are excellent facilitators that bring a sense of curiosity, presence and humor to the realm of conscious relationship. We have trusted them with our personal challenges and have experienced massive breakthroughs as a result of their guidance. Their teachings have given us the tools to continue working on our relationship in the privacy of our home and maintain a deep, loving sense of connection. This work is so powerful and I would not hesitate to refer anyone to their programs."
NICK + ALISSA
"Ben and Shay are incredible relationship teachers and healers. They lead by example and aren’t afraid to dive deep. My husband and I have learned so much from them and their relationship. They have held us with love and compassion when we were going through some of the roughest waters of our relationship, and supported us as we navigated back towards one another. They put their heart and soul into everything they do and every conversation with them is transformative. We are eternally grateful for their wisdom and support."
BROOKE + DAVE
